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Not exactly something to be proud of. But it is very accurate. People with my personality type (INTJ) don't forgive easily. I have no issues moving away from people that are annoyances or I determined that the probabilities of them causing me trouble in the future is too high. Even if they can't see how that can or will happen. I don't enjoy doing it, but it is surprisingly easy for me.
Probably a personality flaw. Hmm.
"But Pigeon, you act like kind person, and that sounds like someone heartless." That would be right. INTJs are basically walking contradictions. I am kind, with the people that is kind, with the people that deserves my kindness, I always give a chance at the beginning. But actions have consequences and the more my patience is tested the less I am going to want to deal with the person. And then I snap, and it is over, things never go back to the way they used to. Sometimes I wish I was "normal", not have this odd personality, it is like a curse.
So have you tried attempting to fix that personality flaw? Have you tried working on it? Maybe try speaking with someone? A professional? Idk.
Again, given your interaction with me, it tells me all that takes it some criticism or some mildly spicy debate to cause you to think "well this person is now unforgivable, i'm not even giving them an inch anymore". And again, I don't think that's very healthy at all.